Being a Couple.

Saturday, April 04, 2015

Alright, I'm not too sure where to begin with this but I feel the urge to comment on the topic about no longer being a 'hermit', so to speak, and living with someone else. I love my own independence, being able to create/cancel/change plans whenever I please according to my own schedule and being able to live on my own quite happily. Thus, when my boyfriend moved in with me a month or so ago I was startled when I had to start fitting his schedule with mine. I'm quite selfish, I'm fine with that, let's get over it. 

It bugs me when plans are set in stone and then we have to change them. For example, this week the two of us were supposed to go camping and then the following week I was going on a solo interstate trip for a week. This has all had to change due to his schedule. Don't get me wrong, I'm totally ok with the fact that we've had to reschedule it, now that everything is all in order, but at the time I had a mini freak-out and just wanted to hide away from the problems. I don't do well with people in my personal space 24/7 and it has just been a very discomforting few weeks trying to adjust. 

[I feel as though you guys know me well enough know that I don't have to keep saying TMI whenever something is getting a little more personal.] Living by myself has meant that I've been able to do what I want in my own space. This means: I have a routine for what time everything gets done, everything has its own place and I do what I like (having baths at odd hours, walking around naked if I feel obliged, eating an entire packet of grapes and no one judges me for it, etc.) However, now I have to think twice before doing things, I have to think how will they effect him? Is he having friends over? These are things that probably shouldn't annoy me as much as they do, but because they do I've just been constantly on edge of late and I just want some privacy back ;-( #FirstWorldProblem 

Meh, it'll get better. 
Rant over. 
XX

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