I'm an introvert. That doesn't mean I don't enjoy socialising, it means that after a few hours I need to be by myself to re-energise. Other introverts out there will relate, but after a day socialising, there is nothing better than to come home to a cup of tea in bed. 

"An introvert's desire for solitude is more than just a preference. It is crucial for our health and happiness" - M. Chung

People often mistake shyness for rudeness. I can promise that my silence is never out of judgement, but merely not knowing what to say in conversation. I'd much rather sit back and listen to the conversation before me than partake in it. When I do spark up in a large conversation, I feel painfully awkward... However, if I'm comfortable around each person (individually) in the conversation then I feel fine to join in and stop observing.

"I'm both: introvert and extrovert. I like people, but need to be alone. I'll go out, vibe, and meet new people but it has an expiration because I have to recharge. If I don't find the valuable time alone to recharge I cannot be at my highest self" - S. McNutt III

Recently, I've found myself needing a lot more time to stop and recharge. This is in no way a bad thing; in fact, it proves that I'm trying to step out of my comfort zone more and socialise. So, if blog posts are ever late or just don't get uploaded, you can probably assume I just needed some down time (or I've been swamped by uni assignments, either one). 

much love, 

XO