Friendships.
Saturday, July 01, 2017
Another pre-scheduled post, due to being overseas.
Friendships are weird... They're filled with uncertainty, sensitivity and loads of feelings. Finding, making and keeping friends can be one of the most complex situations for us Millennials. We're used to everything being so instant, that for most of us, the idea of developing a frienship can sometimes seem unfavourable. We live in a world where we question and overthink everything. They haven't liked my last three Instagram photos, are we still friends?! We are constantly looking for the approval from those around us. I'm guilty of it myself, I constantly send multiple selfies to friends and ask which one, if any, I should post on Instagram...
We're all guilty of holding on to friendships for longer than need be just because they know your dark secrets or you just don't know how to get out of the friendship. Not all friendships are forever.
"People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime." - M. Ventor
I think the most important thing, for me to remember, is that true friends don't judge you. Instead, they help you grow. I've definitely made some big mistakes, and from that big decisions, and I was happy to know that those closest to me, helped me grow from those situations. Another thing, is that true friends make time for each other. I mean, I fly halfway across the world, to Seattle, to spend time with one of my best friends. True friends understand that life is busy, but you are both willinging to schedule in a coffee date (even if it has to be every 2 weeks or longer).
much love,
XO
"People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime." - M. Ventor
I think the most important thing, for me to remember, is that true friends don't judge you. Instead, they help you grow. I've definitely made some big mistakes, and from that big decisions, and I was happy to know that those closest to me, helped me grow from those situations. Another thing, is that true friends make time for each other. I mean, I fly halfway across the world, to Seattle, to spend time with one of my best friends. True friends understand that life is busy, but you are both willinging to schedule in a coffee date (even if it has to be every 2 weeks or longer).
much love,
XO
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